maria-leonor asked: im sure you have much more experience as to what to do in those certain situations when being in a long distance relationship can be hard. Even though ive only been dating my boyfriend for two months now, ive known him for years. And i honestly love him in way unlike with anyone else. But lately its as if we've lost that spark we had. And that the constant communication is slowly going away. i know he's busy with work and other things but sometimes its hard, bc i miss him. what should i do?

Yeah, that’s typical. The ‘honeymoon phase’, or the beginning of the relationship, typically results in everyone putting in their best effort to communicate, and once you start getting more comfortable and used to the relationship, that starts to lessen. It’s not because he doesn’t want to talk to you, it’s just that at this point, he doesn’t need that constant communication. It’s just an adjustment period. We went through it and so many people do. Try talking to him about it! Whenever something feels off or wrong, the best thing to do is communicate that. Let him tell you how he feels and maybe you will both come to an understand of why your feeling the way you are, because every feeling is valid. Good luck! :)

When my girlfriend started this blog, we were at a rough patch in our relationship. She wanted to do this to show me why we were amazing and why she loved me. Since then, we’ve had the most amazing relationship ever and I love her endlessly. This blog has been in my most viewed pages list for the past year and I found myself checking it several times a day, even though I knew it only posted once a day. She is so amazing and her doing this blog for me showed exactly how amazing she really is. Our relationship has grown in so many ways over the past year and I love her more and more every day. The best part about this blog is looking every day and knowing that most of the time I could say I love her for the exact same reasons and a million more. I don’t know if I can thank her enough for doing this for me. It has made me smile endlessly and I hope I can make her smile every day for the rest of our lives. I love you. Thank you beaw.
Love, J

I started this blog for a few reasons. First, a long distance relationship, no matter how long the distance, is beyond challenging. Second, we were having a hard time. I knew we both needed something to remind ourselves every day that what we have is rare and special. I originally started it one year ago today to remind him of all the reasons why I love him so much, but after doing this I realized something. These reasons were never just for him, they were for me too. We’ve been together for 3 years now, and when someone is in your life for that long, it can be pretty easy to start taking them for granted. This year has measured a milestone in our relationship. We’ve come back from some big struggles and are stronger than ever and more in love than we’ve ever been. Now, over 1,000 followers (which I still can’t believe, by the way) and 365 reasons later, I am so unbelievably glad I started and finished this blog. J, you’re my best friend, and I love you so much. Thank you for loving me. 

Love, A